We’ve all heard of the three dates “rule” but does spending three nights together mean that we’re in a serious relationship?
A couple a weeks ago a cat started coming in my kitchen. She was very sweet and very friendly, she’d rub against my legs, purring like crazy. I’ve had cats most of my life so I had a pretty good idea of what she was after: food.
At first, it was a case of eat n’ run. I was fine with it as, although I was not ready to get into another cat-relationship yet, I
do enjoy their company just can’t resist them.
As the days went by, she started spending more and more time inside. She even took a few naps on the sofa. So far, normal cat attitude: eat, eat more, nap, go outside, back in, nap, eat.
Then she’d leave until the following day for a new cycle.
Three nights ago she started spending the night…. on the bed….with me.
I have no idea if she has a home, if she is lost or has been abandoned. I have asked around, looked out for posters, checked on facebook, but no one seems to be missing her.
Until I’m sure of our relationship status, I have held up giving her a forever name so, for the time being at least, she is Squatter Cat.